How
to Discover
Your Best-Fit Type
The following
is adapted from Linda V. Berens and Dario
Nardi, The
16 Personality Types: Descriptions for
Self-Discovery (Telos Publications,
1999) *Used with permission.
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Best-fit type refers to the type pattern
that fits you best. No one description
or pattern will be a perfect match to
all of who you are. Your personality is
rich and complex, and a type
or type pattern cannot adequately express
all of that richness. Each of the sixteen
types comes in a variety of flavors,
and best-fit type means that the themes
and preferred processes of that type seem
to fit you the best.
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Not
everything that counts can be counted;
and not everything that can be counted
counts.
Albert Einstein
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Sometimes
people come to understand who they are
through self-reporting on personality
instruments. No instruments that rely
solely on self-reporting are completely
accurate. They must all be accompanied
by a validation process, preferably involving
self-discovery. Many instruments have
standards that require face-to-face facilitated
feedback with a qualified professional.
This booklet is not meant to replace this
valuable interactive process but to support
it.
Personality
instruments that are well researched and
well designed can help us tune in to key
aspects of who we are. They are designed
to reveal ourselves to ourselves. Psychological
Type instruments are developed to suggest
possible best-fit type patterns. While
some instruments are more thoroughly researched
than others---they are not always 100
percent accurate on all four of the letters
that are used to summarize personality
characteristics.
If your
new to discovering your personality type---allow
yourself to try on more than
one type pattern to see which one fits
you the best. If you have had exposure
to psychological type instruments, set
aside any assumptions you have about your
best-fit type pattern.
In any case,
any one modellike temperament or
psychological typeis frequently
insufficient to reveal ones personality
pattern by itself. This is why we recommend
the use of multiple models in The Self-Discovery
Process®with or without
a personality instrument.
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An
instrument will not tell you who
you are,
it can only indicate who you might
be.
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One powerful way to find your best-fit
type pattern is through self-discovery.
This works very well for many people.
Self-Reflection
The Johari Window,* originally used for
improving communication, is a useful map
to help us understand this self-discovery
process.
For example,
one area is Public Knowledgewhat
we know about ourselves and is known to
others around us. These public
aspects of ourselves are easily recognized.
What do we talk about over coffee or around
the water cooler? Discovering how we communicate
in general is one part of getting in touch
with who we really are. Listen to what
you say and how you say it. What do you
like to talk about? These topics will
likely reflect your natural self. Be aware
that your public self may reflect adaptive
or learned behavior. This adaptive self
is also part of who you are but may not
hold the key to what energizes you.
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The
Johari Window
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Known to Self
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Unkown to Self
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Known
to Others
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Public Knowledge . . .
What I Show You
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Feedback . . .
Your Gift to Me
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Unknown
to Others
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Private . . .
Mine to Share
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Unconscious . . .
Not to Probe but I Can Become
More Aware
and Choose to Share
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Interaction
with OthersSharing and Feedback
We also learn who we are through our interactions
with others. Finding people who are similar
to us and comparing notes and sharing
stories helps many of us discover our
own best-fit type pattern. This often
happens in workshops when people openly
discuss their type patterns in order to
better understand themselves and others.
Sometimes this kind of discussion takes
us into the Private area of
the Johari Windowthose aspects known
to ourselves and not known to others.
In the same way, self-discovery often
sends us to this area, at least privately.
One valuable
way of finding out who we are is by actively
seeking feedbackasking others to
tell us how they see us. These people
may be trained facilitators or merely
people who know us well. The Feedback
area of the Johari Window gives us the
opportunity to learn about those aspects
of ourselves unknown to us but known to
others. This provides additional information
as we explore who we are. And remember,
this feedback is a gift, often given through
the eyes of the giverso seek feedback
from many people.
Openness
to New Information
During The Self-Discovery Process®Unconscious
information sometimes comes into our mindsaspects
previously unknown to ourselves and unknown
to others. The unconscious is often where
we store information about
how to be in the world. As
you explore who you are, stay open to
valuable insights from this area.
Many variables
may be involved in your self-discovery
process. Be aware that family, social,
cultural, and other influences will affect
how you view yourself in relation to the
type patterns. These influences are often
unconscious until they somehow come into
our awareness when they are described
and pointed out. Stay open and searching.
Seek input from all areas of the Johari
Window.
A Word about Words!
In writing the descriptions, we have chosen
various words to try to capture the themes
of each type pattern. These words often
reflect the way people with this type
pattern think of themselves as well as
the deep theoretical underpinnings. Words
are subject to individual interpretations
with various connotations, so beware the
one-word category! One or two words cannot
capture the whole of a pattern. The words
were tested with many people, but they
are not the last word! Dont let
the meaning you may find in any one word
or phrase prevent you from considering
the pattern as a whole.
The Names
of the Patterns
Weve given names to the patterns
in order to emphasize that the type is
more than the sum of its parts or any
single model. Names can more easily represent
themes and also make the pattern more
personal and real.
There is
also a logic behind the names. The first
word in the name is the inside view:
- How we often see ourselves
- What others often
dont see
The second
word in the name is the outside view:
- How others often see
us
- What we may not see
in ourselves
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The
words work together, each enriching
and clarifying the meaning of the
other, reflecting most of the theoretical
models behind the descriptions.
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The
following is adapted
from Linda V. Berens and Dario Nardi,
The
16 Personality Types: Descriptions for
Self-Discovery (Telos Publications,
1999) *Used with permission.
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